WOkondedwa ABBY: Zaka khumi ndi zisanu zapitazo "ndinathawa" ana anga akuluakulu ndipo pamapeto pake ndinadzipangira ndalama.Anatha kukhala m’nyumbamo chifukwa ndinapitiriza kulipira ngongole yanga yanyumba.Bambo awo - wakale wanga - amakhala pafupi ndi banja.
Tsopano palibe aliyense wa ana anga amene amafuna kukhala ndi chochita ndi ine kapena banja langa, ndipo safuna kundichitira kanthu.Ndikuganiza kuti amaona kuti asiyidwa chifukwa ndine kholo limene angadalire.Kodi pali chilichonse chimene ndingachite kuti tibwezeretse ubale wathu?- Pennsylvania Runaway Amayi
Mayi Okondedwa: Inde, auzeni ana anu kuti mukugulitsa nyumbayo, ndikuganiza kuti ndi yanu tsopano.Ndikukhulupirira ayamba “kulankhulana” nanu mawu akangowafikira.Mukupitiriza kulipira mowolowa manja kwambiri nyumbayo kuti akhale ndi malo okhala.Ngati muyenera "kuthawa" zosowa zawo zopanda malire, mukuchita zonse bwino.Chonde siyani kugwiritsidwa ntchito.Munadzipulumutsa nokha ndipo simuyenera kudziimba mlandu kapena kudziimba mlandu.
WOkondedwa ABBY: Posachedwapa ndayamba kucheza ndi mnyamata wina wakale.Ndimamukonda kwambiri.Takhalapo nthawi ndi nthawi chaka chonse chifukwa tonse tili ndi zinthu zofunika kuziganizira poyamba (monga matenda anga a bipolar ndi kufunafuna uphungu).
Komabe, mnzanga wapamtima anandiopseza kuti andichotsa pa moyo wake ngati nditayamba naye chibwenzi.Kumbali ina, munthu uyu amandipangitsa kumva ngati ndili pamoto - mwanjira yabwino, inde.Koma kumbali ina, sindikufuna kutaya mnzanga wapamtima.Kodi ndikuchita chiyani?- Kusankha kovuta ku Illinois
Wokondedwa Zosankha Zovuta!Mwaphonya chinthu chofunika kwambiri m’kalata yanu.N’chifukwa chiyani bwenzi lako lapamtima amadana kwambiri ndi munthu ameneyu?Ndi nsanje?Kodi izi zikugwirizana ndi vuto lake?Kodi zinali zoipa nthawi yapitayi pamene munali naye?Zoipa bwanji?Mnzanu wapamtima angakhale akuyesera kukupulumutsani, koma ndi wopusa.lankhula naye.
DEAR ABBY: Posachedwapa mnzanga wabwera kunyumba kwanga.Ndimapereka khofi ndi keke, zomwe ndimadula ndikuziyika pa mbale.Iye anati analibe njala panthawiyo, choncho anapita nayo kunyumba kuti akadye ndipo anandipempha kuti ndiikulunga kapena kuika m’chidebe.Ndinati inde, koma sindinamvepo za chinthu choterocho, ngakhale ogula nthawi zambiri amatenga chakudya chodyedwa theka kunyumba kuchokera kumalo odyera.Kodi ine ndachoka pano, kapena ndili ndi ufulu wodabwa monga momwe ndikuchitira panopa?mayiyo anadabwa.
Wokondedwa Wodabwitsa: Ngati "mwadzidzimuka" ndi zomwe akuchita, muyenera kukhala okhudzidwa.Anzanu ndi oona mtima ndi inu.khulupirirani iye.Angakonde keke yomwe mumamupatsa, koma akuyang'ana kulemera kwake ndipo akuganiza kuti ayike mufiriji kuti asangalalenso.Sindikudziwa malamulo a ulemu, malinga ndi zomwe mikate iyenera kudyedwa pamaso pa wolandira alendo.
Wokondedwa Abby linalembedwa ndi Abigail Van Buren, yemwe amadziwikanso kuti Jeanne Phillips, ndipo adapangidwa ndi amayi ake, Pauline Phillips.Lumikizanani ndi Wokondedwa Abby pa www.DearAbby.com kapena PO Box 69440, Los Angeles, CA 90069.
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